Lets not get into the it will get better stuff, I can't stand hearing that BS any more. Been hearing people say that for years now and all the time it gets worst. Also people like to say it could be worst and yes it could be but what it could be is most likely what it is going to be. not that I am being negative, because I am not. I am being realistic.
I will keep my faith and trust in God were it belongs and not it mundane sayings That are for saying when there really is nothing to say. My health is what it is, out of control selfish , selfcenterd people are what they are. there is only so much a person can do. Acceptance is not always key (or answer )but always helpful. Things are what they are and all I can do is take what I have and do the best I can with it and try to be grateful for what God has given me as well as what he has taken from me.Knowing that I can not see his reasons for the whys and wheres. I love you like a sister and pray that Your dreams will be the least of your blessing.
I will keep my faith and trust in God were it belongs and not it mundane sayings That are for saying when there really is nothing to say. My health is what it is, out of control selfish , selfcenterd people are what they are. there is only so much a person can do. Acceptance is not always key (or answer )but always helpful. Things are what they are and all I can do is take what I have and do the best I can with it and try to be grateful for what God has given me as well as what he has taken from me.Knowing that I can not see his reasons for the whys and wheres. I love you like a sister and pray that Your dreams will be the least of your blessing.
I definitely believe we should all DO more for each other, rather than SAY more. However, a kind, encouraging word never hurts, and if nothing else, it helps to know that you're in people's thoughts during your hard times. :)
ReplyDeleteWe should always welcome positive vibrations :)
Yes Sugar I agree. This blog was meant for just a few and they will most likely get the drift as my friend Ken did. The real point is sometimes the words are better off not being said. With good friends & those close to you A simple smile a love you or a prayer is all that is needed.You of coarse know all to well how pain, despair and just feeling like crap for long periods can drag you down. Out of all my nieces I think I have sent out prayers for you the most even thought we have always been so far apart. Most the time the words of encouragement are taken as they are give. The problem is we do not always know what the right time or thing to say is.More true here in the cyber then any place else.
ReplyDeleteA little known truth in 2008 The Dr I was seeing for the respiratory problems gave me some of that news you never want to hear. I was told I would have to quit my work or I make 3 or 4 yrs before my lungs would be gone. There was to much damage to them. Between that the the other stuff I am grateful just to be up right and on the good side of dirt. Positive attitude yes I got one as well as a realistic one. Have gone through all the efforts to get disability, Medicaid,and anything else I could come up with. Each time I get shot down. So there is some bitterness yes and I keep a lid on it most the time but it is there a underlying tormenter that creeps out from time to time.I am as I am I is by the Grace of God I am even alive today.I am grateful just tired of being told I should be. My health will not get better unless I can get the aid I need. There are people that like to tell you what you need to do or where you need to go and then scoff when you have to inform them there been there done that didn't work.
Well I have rambled on to long about this so My dear thank you for your comment as well as reading my ramblings. Love ya Sugar!