Saturday, December 8, 2012

Does everything happen for a reason?

  Somewhere between calamity and sanity you will find the answer. 
To often we have to go through the insanity first. 
  Just a few days ago My wife and I was involved in a rather bad car crash. ( excuse me if my brains are still a little scramble ) 
Since then more then once I have heard everything happens for a reason. I believe this may be true,But it is incorrect The way I have heard this is "everything in God's world happens for a reason".
Now we must look at the fact that God is or is not, he is everything or nothing. If you believe that he is then, Are you acting or living in His world,your world or the world of man? (Lets not forget God has a adversary)
The laws of cause and effect would assume that there is a reason for all things that happen. So at one level, the idea that everything happens for a reason is true.
I think some times shit just happens but that's rare. You can almost always find the tangible or the cause if you look for it.
As I said we crashed, not our fault. Was there a reason for it that go's beyond the simple truth that someone was not paying attention to the road? Maybe maybe not.
Kenny loaned me his car. His girlfriends dad crash his driving under the influence.I heard he has a habit of doing this.
My wife and I are alive by Gods grace I am sure. We were going to be sending the car back this weekend.
So perhaps There was a reason. Gods grace kept us alive and our injury's limited because he wanted that car not to be in the hands of a drunk driver. 
At this point in time I can see no other good reason for this to have happen to me and my family and friends.
I do believe that with my faith and trust in the Lord there is something good going to come out of it even if  I never get to see it or know what it was. The one thing I do know is right now I hurt and everything is fucked up. My wife may louse her job I can not do what work I can because the tools I need are in the car and I can not get them and my body is kind fucked up. like I said I hurt.
My problems today fall in to groups .
1; those of my own making 2; those of circumstance 3; those from a outside source. An that is the topic for a later blog.
My friend Kenny Again let me tell you how sorry I am that this happened.You have been a good friend to me I love you like a brother & I hope this will not come between our friendship.I feel like I have let you down Broken a trust that you gave me. That hurts more then my injury's.      

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